Harlinn Draper

Illuminate

In my past, a haunting absence followed me —a void etched by my father's elusive presence. From the tender years of childhood, I yearned for his time, his attention, his love—a craving unfulfilled, a hunger unsatisfied. As a young boy, I watched enviously as other children embraced their fathers, aching for that same sense forever out of reach.


Growing up through the angsty adolescent years, I found myself consumed in a sea of anger and uncertainty, a fire raging within, burning the fabric of my being. I wandered aimlessly, a ship without a compass, lashing out at the world in a desperate attempt to forge my own path, to make sense of the world. In those dark and turbulent days, my father was my anchor, his presence a pillar of stability in a world laced with instability.


But fate, that curel devil, had other plans. Just before my twenty-second birthday, tragedy struck, ripping my father from my grasp with cruel and unrelenting force. His sudden departure dropped me in a bottomless pit of grief, a black hole opening within me, swallowing me.


In the aftermath, I tried to fill the void in the arms of the woman I believed to be my salvation, my refuge in the darkness. But as days turned to years, her love waned, her devotion wavered, until one fateful night, I discovered the depth of her betrayal. She had found comfort in the arms of others, shattering the fragile remnants of my heart into irreparable pieces.


Lost in a haze of grief and disillusionment, I turned to the allure of drugs and hedonistic pursuits, seeking peace in the ephemeral embrace of oblivion. I stumbled through a series of bad decisions, a ghost of the person I once aspired to be, haunted by choices of my past and shadows of my mistakes.


It was my mother, with her unwavering love and boundless kindness, who pulled me back from the brink, showing me there was still light through the darkness, hope to be cherished in the depths of depression. With her guidance, I clawed my way back, piecing together the shattered remnants of my soul, forging a new path towards redemption and self-discovery.


St. Petersburg, Florida, I found a place to rebuild myself, where sun-kissed waves brought me promises of a brighter tomorrow. It was there I encountered heaven, a woman whose radiance outshone the darkest nights of my past, whose light enveloped me, shielding me from the storms within my own disturbed mind.


With her by my side, I moved towards a new chapter, of love and determination, bound by shared dreams and devotion. Together, we cruise life's peaks and valleys, weathering trials that threatened to tear us asunder, emerging stronger with each passing day.


Now, as I look into the innocent eyes of my son, reflecting the love and longing I once held for my father, I am reminded of life's cyclical trials and triumphs. Through my past's trials, I have emerged stronger, wiser, guided by the enduring light of love that shines in the hearts of those who hold me dear. In the warmth of my wife and the eyes of my son, I have found peace, purpose, and love.